This is one I write through tears of gratitude—I can still feel it, the magnitude of meeting our daughter for the first time. The moment she peeked around the corner, carried gently by her foster carer, left us in total awe. I hope that feeling never fades. I hope I always remember what that dayRead the Post
Adoption Leave in the UK: What It’s Really Like (From Someone Living It)
I had a vision of myself on adoption leave — and let me tell you, it was blissful. I pictured early starts, waking up refreshed, sneaking in yoga or a workout before she was up. We’d laugh over breakfast, then head out for zoo trips, soft play, nature walks — soaking up every wholesome moment.Read the Post
Adopting in the UK: A Life-Changing First Week
We woke up one morning with a toddler. It sounds surreal even now. One day we were a couple, the next we were parents, after adopting a toddler in the UK. There was no labour or gradual build up, just the thundering arrival of a beautiful, bewildered, and strong-willed little girl named Willow. It wasRead the Post
Grief Before Hope: Our Infertility Journey – Diagnoses, Loss and Love
One of my frequent daydreams had always been the big reveal of my pregnancy. I imagined the joy on my family’s faces, the tears, the hugging, the laughter. I’d mentally stage it over and over- This month it’ll happen, and I’ll tell them at Christmas… No, maybe on my birthday. That would be perfect. WhatRead the Post
Top UK Adoption Books for Prospective & New Adoptive Parents
Whether you’re at the very beginning of your adoption journey or already knee-deep in the joyful chaos of parenting, the right books can provide wisdom, comfort, and the sense that you’re not alone. These are our top adoption books for UK prospective adopters and adoptive parents. During our own journey to adopt our daughter, Willow,Read the Post
How We Prepared for Adoption Panel- What Really Helped
Panel. That word loomed over our adoption journey for months. It felt like a final exam, a job interview, and a life milestone all rolled into one. It’s hard to describe it to people outside the adoption world. Imagine an emotionally-charged, life-altering episode of The Apprentice, but instead of pitching a business, you’re sharing yourRead the Post
How Long Does Adoption Take in the UK? A Step-by-Step Guide
For me, this was the burning question we wanted answered, so I thought I’d address it early on. Through my personal journey, experience and what I have learned, I have written How Long Does Adoption Take in the UK? A Step-by-Step Guide post about the timeline to simplify best I can. Whether you’re just beginningRead the Post
Why We Chose Adoption After Infertility – Love Without Limits
One thing I have always grappled with is the thought of adoption being a second-best option. Would we have adopted if we hadn’t faced infertility? I can’t say for sure. Probably not. But just because it wasn’t our first choice doesn’t mean it wasn’t the best choice. This is why we chose adoption after infertility.Read the Post
How Much Does Adoption Cost in the UK? The Truth From My Personal Experience
When my husband and I first started thinking about adoption, one of our biggest questions was simple: how much does it cost in the UK? I remember quietly typing that exact question into Google and I know many others are doing the same. Please note: This post is based on our personal experience of adoptingRead the Post
How We Shared Our Adoption Journey: Reactions, Support & Love
Moving toward adoption after infertility felt like finding our footing on unfamiliar ground. Not firm, not steady at first, but new. Not the path we expected, but one we began to trust more with each step. It wasn’t a decision we made overnight. It came slowly, through tears, late-night conversations, and long walks filled withRead the Post