Finding the right tools and resources can make a huge difference during the adoption process. Whether you’re at the very beginning, preparing for placement, or settling into life as a new adoptive family, the right support matters. This curated list features some of the most helpful resources & products for UK adoptive families— these are personally recommended based on our own journey.
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Top Reads for Prospective Adopters & Adoptive Parents
Preparing As Adoptive Parents
No Matter What
Author: Sally Donovan
This was the first book I read during Stage 1, but honestly, you could read it at any point and it would still resonate deeply. It’s a powerful, honest memoir chronicling the author’s journey through adoption and therapeutic parenting- full of humour, heart, and healing.
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Therapeutic Parenting in a Nutshell
Author: Sarah Naish
I learned so much from this one. It’s exactly what it says on the cover- concise, accessible, and packed with insight. It offers a strong foundation in understanding the strategies and principles of therapeutic parenting, making it a great starting point.
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What to Expect When You’re Adopting
Author: Dr Ian Palmer
In my opinion, this one is best read before starting the process or during Stage 1. If you’re in Stage 2 or beyond, much of the content may already be familiar from training. Still, it’s a brilliant introduction, a compassionate and informative guide that covers everything from the emotional journey to the legal side of adoption in the UK.
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The A-Z of Therapeutic Parenting
Author: Sarah Naish
This is hands-down my favourite parenting book. It lives at the end of my bookshelf where I can grab it quickly! I think it works for all ages, I use it for my toddler. It’s a practical guide packed with go-to advice for everyday behavioural challenges in adoptive and foster families.
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The Connected Child
Authors: Dr. Karyn Purvis, Dr. David Cross & Wendy Lyons Sunshine
This was recommended during our Stage 1 training and has become a regular reference for me. Designed for adoptive and foster parents, it’s full of practical tools to help build trust and support healing for children who’ve experienced early trauma.
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The Whole-Brain Child
Authors: Dr. Dan Siegel & Dr. Tina Payne Bryson
Every parent should read this. It’s fantastic for understanding your child’s developing brain, and the scenarios and examples really helped me learn how to parent with compassion and calm, even during tricky moments.
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